Everyone has some fears. Some manage to not show their fears. They will clearly avoid what they fear thinking that others will not find out the real reason for avoiding the things thy fear. Fear is a common feeling. We have all felt insecure at least a few times during the time of our growth. A child will feel insecure if it can't find its mother for a while after it has realized that it has been taken care of by its mother. So, the seeds of fear have been sown in our minds even during our childhood and the seeds have sprouted and grown into plants and trees.
The only way to come out of our fears is to get ourselves rid of them. And, how do we do this? Just by doing the things we fear. If someone is afraid of swimming, his coach will just push him into the water. After the initial shock, the person will realize that being in water is not such a dreadful thing to do. He may not overcome the fear immediately but after a few trials, he will overcome his fear of swimming and emerge confident. the same thing can be said about riding a bicycle or a car.
So, do the thing you fear to do and the fear will become weak. Do it a few times and the fear will go away never to come back. You have nothing to lose but your fears!
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